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For the most part, I’ve come across extremely supportive people on social media who just want to enjoy the craft of writing. But the writerly and fan communities suffer from at least one notable issue when it comes to internet etiquette (which, to be fair, is true of most of social media): how to initiate…
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We need to understand there’s a difference between not making an FMC “one of the boys,” and allowing characters to explore gender expression without limit. No, we shouldn’t be implying that following traditional (and often also toxic) standards of masculinity is better than following anything attached to traditional femininity. But many discussions nowadays don’t understand…
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What does it actually mean to claim that “men and women are different”? There’s a lot that goes into it—a cornucopia of biology and genetics, personal lived experience, the influence of external opinions, and thousands of years and hundreds of cultures’ worth of social conditioning. I see many people trying to use this statement as…
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It’s impossible to live without bias. Merely by existing, we’re exposed to other people, other media, and other ideas. We have experiences that shape what we think and how we behave. We spend our entire lives forming, sharing, and breaking our opinions. As such, no written work (or any creative work, really) can ever be…
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Spoiler warning! I discuss several movies in-depth here, so if there’s any you haven’t seen that you don’t want spoiled, then I’d advise you to skip the corresponding sections. The movies will be stated before I begin discussing them. * * * We’ve all heard of the classic hero’s journey. It’s extremely prevalent in western…
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In a society that glorifies hustle culture, external validation, and people-pleasing, writing has long since ceased to be a hobby for the pure and simple joy of the author’s satisfaction. The age of social media has helped to wrest away the role of writing as a tool of self-expression. Nowadays, an author’s chief concern is…
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Every book falls into one of several predetermined age categories, intended to signal to potential readers the maturity levels of any given story. Or at the least, that’s how it’s supposed to work. In reality, age ranges have basically become tools for publishers to slot their wares in front of potential target audiences. A book…
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The market in the last several years (ever since the 2010s, really), has become oversaturated with surface-level tales of shock-value atrocities and aesthetically packaged suffering. Nobody is willing to dig into a deeper discussion on the repercussions of trauma and abuse; but they’re more than eager to coat deep and troubling topics in a rose-tinted…
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In today’s installment of “how did the patriarchy screw up the media?,” we’re going to talk about the infamous “not like other girls” trend. Some may be under the impression that this movement was the result of “angry feminists” who sought to desecrate the sacred concept of femininity. But in reality, it was just another…
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First person and third person limited are the choices of trend nowadays. When you open a book, chances are you’ll either see a narration from one single person’s point of view, with little insight given elsewhere; or the entire narrative told from behind the MC’s eyes. But it’s also possible to handle more than one…